The end of 2020 is near and the mantra of my life has become, “Rest is the work.”
I highly recommend you adopt this one, too.
As we enter December it’s so important to allow ourselves to shift into rest and reflection as we digest the lessons we have learned this year.
I like to wrap up my year in a two-step process: letting go and then dreaming forward.
If we want to move into a fresh new dimension in 2021, we’ve got to look at our lives under a new light. We’ve got to leave our worries behind us and not just wait for the clock to strike midnight, hoping for a miraculous change.
If we don’t change and learn from the massive life lessons of this year, then we will keep experiencing those lessons over and over again until we fully understand them.
2020 was not a year that you could hide from. Anything tucked away into the shadows of life came out and was exposed. Those deep wounds we have covered up came to the surface and revealed themselves.
It was a terrible experience...and a beautiful experience at the same time — a unique gift that this year has given us.
Personally and globally structures that govern our world, our minds, and even our emotional bodies have changed. While we’ve been locked down and ‘stuck’ inside with our family members, these changes have faced us head on — there’s simply no place to escape to.
As you have been confined and forced to confront the reality of your own home life, what have you learned?
Have you realized that you have some issues to face and some drama to heal? Have you used this as a time to deepen your dreams and fall more in love with those close to you?
There’s no right or wrong way to feel about your home, your life, or your relationships right now, this is just an opportunity for you to pause and reflect.
What are some of the old resentments, victimhood habits, and drama that you will not carry forward into 2021?
Some of us are reevaluating friendships and work relationships too during this time. We are examining who we really miss, what is worth our precious life force energy, and what we want to release or rebuild as we move forward.
Write down what you are letting go of. If you can burn that paper, watch those things transmute into fertile ashes and imagine them becoming the earth where you will plant your new dreams.
After this, make a list of the 5 lessons you’ve learned this year that you will carry with you.
Next, take a look at what you really want in your life for 2021.
How has this year opened your eyes? How has it opened your heart?
It’s been a tough and challenging year in so many ways. Clarity has come — whether we enjoyed it or not! These lessons have brought new perspectives and Crystalline clear priorities as we have each found out what is truly important to us.
Here are some questions for you to ask yourself as you imagine your next divine year:
💎What do you want to draw into your life in 2021?
💎What kind of people do you want to have around you?
💎What kind of work will bring you fulfillment?
💎What kind of financial abundance do you want to flow?
💎What kind of friends will you invite into your life?
💎What kind of home environment will you create?
💎What are you really passionate about?
💎What do you want to experience in the next 3 months, 6 months, 1 year?
Start bringing these dreams in, calling them in, visualizing them, praying for them, and becoming them. Embody this higher vibration and draw in your dreams and desires with every fiber of your being.
I’ve been so busy this year accomplishing so much that I’ve dreamed about.
It came with a lot of effort, though. The lessons I personally learned in 2020 were about the importance of rejuvenation and self-care. I have remembered the importance of time management in my life and business and found that I have so much more space and energy than I thought I had!
I’ve also spent tons of time with my boys laughing and having deep, soulful conversations. Our bond is stronger than ever. They are the reason I originally started a business that would allow me to have more time and financial freedom. For this reason, 2020 has been especially rewarding as I can do my Lightwork from home, close to my beloved family.
Already the energy is getting lighter as the end of 2020 nears. I am excited about the future, and pray that you are, too.
This has been the year of really allowing our inner goddess to awaken and rise.
Let’s move forward to another dimension in our evolution together.
Hello Gorgeous Goddess!
Watching the holidays grow nearer on your calendar you feel dread become heavy in your body as you wonder…
Will my drunk uncle make comments about my weight and how much I’m eating at Christmas dinner again?
Will my mother hound me about when I’m going to finally give her grandchildren?
Will my well-meaning cousin ask me how my divorce is going?
As waves of anxiety rise in your chest and ripple out through your being from these worrisome thoughts, let me remind you...you’re not alone, sister.
How would it feel to enter the new year refreshed instead of burnt out on the holiday drama?
Today I have three steps to share with you that will help you manage drama with your family during the holidays.
STEP #1: The most toxic expectation you can hold during the holidays and how to release it
STEP #2: How to keep your energetic space clear when your family throws insults at you
STEP #3: How you’re giving up your power before the festivities even begin
You may love your family members and cherish parts of being with them for holidays while still fearing the chaos that dysfunctional family members bring into your time together.
When we’re around people who don’t embody the kind of light and consciousness that we’ve worked so hard to cultivate in ourselves, we start to feel like we don’t belong, and childhood wounds of not being enough can resurface with a vengeance.
You may be praying that your family will magically change or be different this year, but the truth is that really, you can’t change your family.
Thankfully, you do have the power to change your experience of the holidays with your family, even if they are not the most light filled, loving people on the planet.
STEP #1: Release the expectation that your family will change.
When you let go of the expectation that your family will miraculously change, you allow yourself to accept them as they are and love them exactly where they are in their lives.
Remember that we all have our own path to follow, and they are on their own journey. Do not give up hope that your family is capable of growth and awakening, instead relax into trusting that they are where they are in their life for a specific reason.
Shift from expectation of change into the assumption that your family members mean well and are doing their best with what they have. When you have compassion and release expectations, you become present and unattached.
STEP #2: Set your energetic boundaries.
Accepting your family members as they are does not mean taking on all of the emotional baggage that they have. It is not your fault that your family members have issues.
When you take on their baggage, it often results in lashing out at them which tangles you into the drama, too. Do not take it personally when they want to rope you into their drama, and create a clear energetic boundary with them.
By keeping your center in abundance and your Crystalline frequency, you’ll keep yourself from taking on their comments as truth. There is nothing wrong with you, and what your family believes about you does not have to become what you believe about yourself!
Remember that it is every individual person’s responsibility to rise up, ascend, and change when they are ready. It is not your responsibility to make this happen for them.
You are wonderful, beautiful, and ENOUGH just as you are.
STEP #3: Allow yourself to choose when and how you will participate.
Sometimes we forget that we can say YES to the holidays in our own way. Just because your family spends an entire week or weekend together, doesn’t mean that you have to participate in the entire gathering.
You still have the power to choose how much time you spend with your family.
Instead of feeling that you have to either be with your family for the entire gathering or not go at all, consciously choose the amount of time that you can handle and enjoy with your family.
Maybe you’ll decide to go just for a meal and then come home or go to a hotel where you can have your own space. Maybe you’ll want to go early in the day to avoid the later evening because you know everyone will be drinking all day, and the drama happens at night!
How you spend your time is your CHOICE!
Whenever you anticipate drama or dysfunction in your life, remember that you can call in support! If you can have a support person in your home or family with you, this is fantastic! However, I also want to remind you that you can find a sister to support you in the Crystalline Goddess Facebook community, as well!
Join us here!
Know who you are, be in your goddess energy, put on your (invisible) crown, and sink into your own energy of bliss this holiday season, gorgeous!
Happy New Year Goddess!
You know...beginnings are a funny thing. We love them for the breakthrough energy they bring to our lives.
However, they can also be like early mornings.
Sometimes we just want to stay snuggled into bed, surrounded by the comfort and safety of sleep even when the day is calling to us.
It’s inevitable that we will awaken and rise, even when we resist it or hold ourselves back.
Your Crystalline ascension journey is much like waking up in the morning. You are designed with beautiful dreams in your very DNA and all you need to do is open your eyes, open your heart, and get your feet on the floor to start manifesting them.
What new beginnings are happening in your life? I’d love for you to share your reflections over in my Crystalline Goddess Facebook Group so we can celebrate with you!
This year, I’m literally getting up earlier every morning and it’s not an easy habit to develop as I’m not naturally an early riser. It’s been a wonderful holiday here to gear up for this change, though. Spending time with my two sons playing board games, eating traditional Finnish Christmas foods, and going to fun movies has been so recharging.
The first 6 months of this year will be the easiest time to spiritually awaken for this decade, so I’m taking advantage of the fresh New Year energy and activating this new routine that will change so many areas of my life and business.
Divine one, after this early 2020 portal closes, the comfort of our past and bad habits are going to be much more challenging to change.
Take some time, whether it’s in the early morning like me or at night before bed, to do your own soul downloads daily. Really pour your heart out and connect to your higher self.
Write about how you’re feeling. Write about your dreams. Just write!
I’ve been experiencing so many energetic upgrades, new gifts, and insights by making this practice where I start my days.
See your own thoughts coming through without judgment. You’ll notice where there’s old energy and can ask for the angels to support you as you release anything that is holding you back.
This week is the perfect time to be journaling, releasing, and leaving behind old patterns to begin a fresh new decade with the full moon coming up Friday.
This powerful energy is following the solar eclipse of Christmas and is getting us ready for another wave of ‘new beginning’ energy that will come on January 24th with the New Moon. This week I shared a full Crystalline Living Forecast for January 6th - 12th that I think you’ll love. Just click here to watch.
While the full moon is here, get outside and bathe in the moonlight (or just connect with the moon energy if it isn’t visible to you at night) just as you would bathe your crystals to cleanse and charge them. Remember, your body is becoming Crystalline, too!
Let the universe support you with all of its magic.
Wishing you a sacred New Year,
P.S. Have you followed me over on Instagram for my daily goddess moments? I’d love to see you there for these potent activations!